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	<title>Chinmay&#039;s Lounging Ground &#187; early marriage</title>
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		<title>Marital Martyrs</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[With the fifth semester just dawning upon everyone in college, we have a lot of time to sit and talk. Talk about absolutely anything. In the past two weeks, I have been lending a patient ear to not less than three really disturbing stories. Apparently, there is a trend in which the educated Indian parent [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With the fifth semester just dawning upon everyone in college, we have a lot of time to sit and talk. Talk about absolutely anything. In the past two weeks, I have been lending a patient ear to not less than three really disturbing stories. Apparently, there is a trend in which the educated Indian parent thinks in a very Neanderthal fashion. A lot of friends of the better sex have been &#8220;complaining&#8221; that their parents would not allow them to pursue higher education as it reduces their chances of getting a suitable groom. This has come as a shocking revelation and is a bit hard to digest.</p>
<p>Apparently, in the marriage market, the husband has to be better educated and should earn more than his wife. From what I know, people marry to be happy. And which uxorious husband would not want his wife to be more successful than him ? Well, that we he could always say that he made the better choice. (:P)  But the more serious aspect is that &#8211; the country is possibly losing out on some of the great female leaders.</p>
<p>This episode perhaps sheds some perspective over the various <em>mahila vikas yojanas</em> of the Centre. If the educated city folks are so unrelenting, the village farmer won&#8217;t think twice before marrying off his daughter to a Sheikh or a goat. All I can do is sympathise &#8211; because one can&#8217;t go and try to put sense into someone who has seen more summers than you.</p>
<p>Also, keeping aside all the problems that the nation would possible face with regard to dearth of female talent, what would people like me do ? Unmarried at 30. Looking out for females &#8211; when most of them have been married of to ugly guys five years older to them just for the heck of it !</p>
<p>Just one of those things where you think of the times &#8211; one step forward, then two back.</p>


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